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The Fear of Play
March 2, 2009
I have never met a person whose greatest need was anything but real, unconditional love.
-Elisabeth Kubler-Ross
The March issue of Exchange, which is now on its way to subscribers around the world, features a Beginnings Workshop section with four articles on the challenges of play, including one by Joan Almon, "The Fear of Play," from which the excerpt below comes and which can be viewed in its entirety on the Exchange web site.

"Real play — play that is initiated and directed by children and that bubbles up from within the child rather than being imposed by adults — has largely disappeared from the landscape of childhood in the United States. There are many reasons for this, such as the long hours spent in front of screens each day or in activities organized by adults. In addition, preschools and kindergartens that used to foster meaningful play and exploration often spend long hours on adult-led instruction instead.

"All of these are the outer manifestations of something deeper — a modern mindset that does not value play and is even afraid of it. Some fears are easy to identify. People freely admit they are afraid of accidents in play and want to minimize risk. Yet playgrounds that offer genuine risk, such as Berkeley’s adventure playground, where children build two-story play structures with hammers and nails, tend to have fewer accidents than traditional playgrounds. Give children real risk and they rise to it; they learn how to handle it. Give them sanitized play spaces, and children often are less conscious of risk and have accidents, or take outlandish risks for the sheer excitement of it all.

"There is also a widespread fear of ‘stranger danger.’ Most parents will not let their elementary-age children go out unattended. Yet most crimes against children, such as abduction or abuse, are perpetrated by people the family knows rather than strangers on the playground.

"These are the easily recognized fears. There are underlying fears that are harder to describe.

"The current mindset in the U.S. leads us to create a life that is as safe and risk-free as possible. We want life to be ultra-organized, and we want to be in charge at all times. We’re taught from early on that life should be rational and measurable. No wonder people love to see young children sitting still and working on worksheets or at computer screens. It’s so tidy compared to play, which is messy, not only physically but also emotionally.

"In play, the full range of human feelings and longings surfaces at one time or another, some of which are not very beautiful and can even be a bit scary. In addition, play is hard to track or assess. It wanders in and out of different realities like dreams. It may start out looking familiar, but will often go into deeper realms that are not easily understood. Play is full of symbols and metaphors. It has some elements that seem familiar and arise from our everyday life, but in the next moment it is full of magical thinking. It is a way of perceiving the world that is reminiscent of fairy tales and myths. It is the antithesis of didactic teaching and scripted lessons, which are highly predictable, although their outcomes tend to be much weaker than promised."



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  • Child Development
  • Program Development
  • Professional Development
  • Language and Literacy
  • Curriculum Issues
  • Environments
  • Parents

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Jarn · May 11, 2011
Finland


Good thoughts. Another consideration at play here (lol) is the interaction between brain hemispheres. We are, by design or by accident, promoting an overgrown left brain, which is the one that arranges, organizes, and keeps us on schedule. Sadly the right brain is left out (lol again) and this fellow is the one that, although messy and chaotic, can come up with new and fresh ideas. No free play, no left brain, and welcome to zombie-land! :(

Erin · November 05, 2009
Little Nutmeg
United States


Our parents group just had two fantastic ECE speakers on a similar topic: "Challenging Play." It's so interesting how as adults we are uncomfortable with certain types of play. For example when boys play with pretend guns or children pretend to be dead. I so often see parents try to tell kids to"stop or tell them it's wrong when they are really just exploring subjects they are curious about, life, death, violence, power... Thanks for a great post. We really have to help parents let children PLAY and not "hover" or interfere so much!

Judi Pack · March 04, 2009
United States


So glad that the Alliance for Childhood is doing this. It will be added to our library for staff and families to borrow.
Perhaps it's even deeper than a fear of play...perhaps it's a kind of fear of childhood. We have been, for a long time now, dressing children like teenagers and adults, introducing them to what were once considered activities for older children and expecting toddlers to "do" academics. My hope is that the nature/outdoors movement will help re-introduce childhood and play back into the adult psyche.

Ed Miller · March 03, 2009
Alliance for Childhood
New York, NY, United States


To all of you who appreciate the ideas in "The Fear of Play": watch for a new report called "Crisis in the Kindergarten: Why Children Need to Play in School," to be published this month by the Alliance for Childhood, of which Joan Almon is founder and executive director. It documents for the first time how child-initiated play has nearly disappeared from U.S. kindergartens, and sets out a plan of action to reverse this disastrous trend.

Alba DiBello · March 02, 2009
innovations in EducationLLC Creating Special Places for Childr
Shrewsbury, New Jersey, United States


What a wonderful article. I was a director for over thirty years and it sounds like the mantra I always invoked - I agree that people are afraid of play- true play places the power in the hands and mind of the child and away from the adult- very scary for many-I played on the street as a child, filled with dangers but unlimited possibilities to create and think and solve problems.Too many programs are impoverished because of this fear of play and fear of not being in control of the child.Bravo! I hope this is on the WF Play agenda!



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